So, the other day, I found myself pondering that age-old question, the one that pops into your head when someone new and interesting is around: “Does he love me?” Instead of just letting it bounce around in my brain, I figured, why not consult my cards? It’s a practice I’ve come to rely on for a bit of clarity, or at least a different perspective.
First things first, I needed to set the right vibe. I tidied up my little corner table, lit a calming incense stick – nothing fancy, just something to help me focus. I picked out my favorite deck, the one with the slightly worn edges. It just feels right in my hands, you know? Like an old, wise friend.
Then, I took a few moments to really center myself. Deep breaths, in and out. I tried to push away all the hopes and fears, all the “what ifs,” and just hold the question gently in my mind: “What are his feelings for me, and what’s the potential here?” Phrasing it openly helps, I find.
Shuffling was next. I shuffled those cards for a good while, letting the question sink into them. I don’t have a super specific way of doing it, just whatever feels right until the energy feels mixed and ready. Then I cut the deck into three piles and re-stacked them, just a little ritual I do.
I decided on a simple three-card spread. I find it’s usually enough to get a good sense of things without overwhelming myself with too much information. I drew the first card, feeling that little flutter of anticipation.
The first card I pulled, I placed it to represent his current feelings towards me. It was the Knight of Cups. Okay, I thought, that’s a good start! Knights are action-oriented, and Cups are all about emotions, romance, and new feelings. So, it felt like he was definitely approaching with some romantic intentions, maybe a bit idealistic, but genuine.
Then, the second card. This one was for the dynamic between us, or the current state of our connection. And out came The Lovers. Well, you can’t get much clearer than that for a connection card! It doesn’t always mean “true love forever” outright, but it strongly suggests a significant bond, a partnership, and maybe even an important choice related to the heart. It felt like a strong confirmation of a real connection forming.
Finally, the third card, for the potential outcome or where this might be heading. I drew the Two of Cups. This card, for me, is all about partnership, mutual affection, and the coming together of two people in a really harmonious way. It’s like a beautiful, balanced emotional exchange.
So, looking at the three of them together – Knight of Cups, The Lovers, Two of Cups – the story felt pretty clear and quite positive. It wasn’t a loud, booming voice from the universe, but more like a gentle, reassuring whisper.
My takeaway from this little session? The cards suggested there are genuine romantic feelings from his side, a strong and meaningful connection between us, and a very promising potential for a loving partnership to develop. It didn’t give me a “yes, he’s planning the wedding” kind of answer, because tarot rarely works like that, at least for me. Instead, it offered a perspective that felt hopeful and encouraged me to be open to what’s unfolding.
I always find these practices useful. It’s not about predicting a fixed future, but more about understanding the energies at play and reflecting on my own feelings and intuitions. And sometimes, it’s just nice to have that quiet moment of connection with myself and my cards.
