Okay, so, “best sex position for first time,” huh? Let me tell you, it’s not a one-size-fits-all kinda deal, but I can definitely share what worked (and didn’t) for me when I was starting out. Buckle up, it’s story time!
First off, I remember being super nervous. Like, knees-knocking, sweaty-palms nervous. So, the very first thing I focused on was creating a chill vibe. Dimmed the lights, put on some music – nothing too intense, just something to fill the silence. Communication is key, so i choose some cozy music.
The first time, we actually started with a lot of making out. Like, a lot. It helped ease the tension and get us both a little more comfortable. Plus, who doesn’t love a good make-out session?
Then came the big question: position. I’d read all sorts of stuff online, and honestly, it was overwhelming. We started with missionary. Yeah, basic, I know. But it felt… safe. I felt like I was in control, and it allowed us to maintain eye contact, which was really important to me at the time. Turns out, for her, it was good too, because she can easy to give me instructions!
But here’s the thing: missionary can be a little… strenuous, especially if you’re both tense. So, we quickly realized we needed something a little less demanding. That’s when we tried spooning. Now, that was a game-changer.
Spooning is amazing because it’s super intimate and low-pressure. You’re both lying down, facing the same direction, and it’s just… cozy. Plus, it frees up your hands to explore a little bit. Trust me, you won’t regret it.
Here’s the breakdown of what I learned:
- Communication is EVERYTHING. Talk about what feels good, what doesn’t, and what you’re comfortable with.
- Don’t be afraid to experiment. What works for one couple might not work for another.
- Relax! The more relaxed you are, the more enjoyable it’ll be.
- Start slow. There’s no rush to get to the “main event.” Take your time and enjoy the process.
And honestly? Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. It’s supposed to be fun! The “best” position is the one that feels good for both of you, and that might take some exploring to find. So, go out there, experiment, communicate, and have a good time!
Hope this helps, and let me know in the comments if you have any questions!